The pain of being misunderstood…

We all have experienced someone confusing our intentions with what we said;
be’cz they just go by our words and not by the emotions we have paid,

Let me take you through a story of he and she who were in a relationship once upon a time;
but they are no more together although they tried a stitch in time to save nine,

Both of them were teens so immaturity was quite high;
so whatever happened was due to the unevenness of both the ends of pie,

Saying that it was my mistake is hard to confess;
be’cz no one wants to take the blame I guess,

But now when I go down the memory lane;
it’s very difficult to understand and  pretty tough to explain,

It’s really painful when she talked about freedom he took it as slavery as the word,
when she talked about the lifeless relationship he mistook it to be a sword,

Not only in this story in every relationship misunderstandings occur;
but it depends on you how you deal with it and how you conquer,

Just like a father and his daughter were not talking for long;
and that’s be’cz of a misunderstanding that went prolong,

Examples are many but the feelings remain the same;
so instead of being judgemental, understanding each other should be their aim,

Is it like to make others understand you have to do a lot of chatter;
or is it like only the person and understanding between the two does matter,

Somethings are beyond our knowledge and experiences till now from childhood;
so time and again we often feel the pain of being misunderstood.

 

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Let’s be mature about it…

Things are many which make a relationship successful or unsuccessful;
both can be termed as the forces of push or pull,

Although every couple makes a decision to be together in a relationship until they are alive;
it doesn’t mean that you always have to be around each other 24/7 for the relationship to survive,

Many people tell everything to their partner like whether they have eaten food or not whether they have gone to loo or not, oh! Common show some royalty;
they must understand that telling the status of your daily chores don’t prove your loyalty,

And this is for both the partners, you can’t order the other one every time the dress to wear, the food to eat, the job to choose, whom you should talk and to whom do not;
everybody has personal space and each partner should value the space of the other one and if you are not getting your space you should boycott,

Every relationship has different equations  and we should accept that;
like a boyfriend should be treated as boyfriend and not husband and vice versa, roger that,

Someone has rightly said that love is not life, it is just a part of life;
that’s why even if you fail in love don’t give your life to any poison or a cut of a knife,

See the point is life is only one so live it to the fullest and don’t demean it;
so value everyone’s space and let’s be mature about it.